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“Wanna Grab A Drink?” A Single Gal’s Guide to the Galaxy

What exactly does dating mean? Does it mean going out on a bunch of first dates and maybe moving on to a second date with only a few? Or does it mean seeing many different people on the regular and maybe even sleeping with them too? It’s been quite some time since I have dated, […]

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The Only Way Is Up

“Let me fall if I must, the one I will become will catch me.” -Baal Shem Tov   Recently I did something that is very uncharacteristic of myself.  I made the decision to delete nearly every photo album I had online.  This may seem like nothing to some people but with photography being one of […]

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A Force Of Nature

Love is the substance of all life. EVERYTHING is connected in love, absolutely EVERYTHING. – Julia Cameron   Have you ever stopped to think about why we are attracted to the people we are? Not just romantically but even just as friends. Have you ever just felt drawn to someone you barely know? Something of […]

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Absorbing Others – Energy Breeds Energy

“Everything changes when you start to emit your own frequency rather than absorbing the frequencies around you, when you start imprinting your intent on the universe rather than receiving an imprint from existence.” -Barbara Marciniak   Due to circumstances which were a result of my poor judgement, the last four days of my life were spent […]

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The Science Of Selling Yourself Short

Settling for crumbs doesn’t keep you fed, it keeps you starving.   Settling feels awful. Take it from me- for the past seven years I have been attempting to cram a square peg into a round hole, simply because I have been afraid to put down the peg I’ve been holding for so long and […]

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Not Everyone You Lose Is A Loss

I’m coming to learn, especially in my adult years, that no matter how hard you wish to hold on, that some things still slip away. Life is always changing: careers, love, beliefs, and even friendships. There comes a point in every person’s life when he or she needs to part ways with someone or something. […]

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An open apology to the both of us. For how long it took me to let things go.

“There’s a luggage limit for every passenger on a flight. The same rules apply to your life. You must eliminate some baggage before you can fly.” –Rosalind Johnson   As I sit here with what feels like the weight of a thousand stones pressed against my chest, I know it’s finally time to let you […]

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Hello. I love you. Just thought you should know.

“Hi. I miss you.”  That is something I always used to send to you. Now I wish that was enough to accurately describe how I feel, but it doesn’t, not even close. It’s been almost two months that you have been gone now. Everyday is different, but today was especially hard. For me, it still doesn’t […]

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Ghost Stories: The strange new phenomenon

The What Ghosting, for those of you lucky few that haven’t yet experienced it, is having someone that you believe cares for you, disappear from contact without any explanation at all.  No call, no email, no text. This also usually takes form of ignoring you and not responding to any attempts at all in communication. […]